Eduardo Garcia et Peter Dombret – Aussi connu comme Mister Chill & Mister Fluffy
Alors qu’il n’y a jamais eu autant de manières de trouver l’amour, comment s’aime-t-on en 2021 ? Au-delà du modèle du couple traditionnel, quels sont les autres équilibres que la génération Y réussit à atteindre ? Croit-on encore au coup de foudre ? Peut-on s’aimer librement, sans sexualité, avec le VIH, à distance ? Peut-on décider de ne pas aimer ?
Pendant 8 épisodes, Malou Vandercammen part à la rencontre d’hommes et de femmes pour qui l’amour et la sexualité s’expriment de manière peu conventionnelle et pourtant bien ancrée dans notre époque. Elle posera les questions qu’on souhaiterait tous poser, sans tabou ni jugement. Derrière les aprioris, au rythme des découvertes, Malou tentera de comprendre avec beaucoup de bienveillance ce que signifie AIMER en 2021.
Nous, Peter & Eduardo sommes très fiers d’avoir pu participer à ces épisodes sur l’amour de RTBF. Nous sommes dépeints comme un couple fusionnel. Et nous sommes un couple avec une relation surnaturelle. Deux cœurs, deux cerveaux connectés l’un à l’autre. Nous nous sentons comme des jumeaux amoureux.
Le sujet de la séropositivité et du fait d’être un couple discordant est également abordé.
“Peter (53 ans) et Eduardo (35 ans) s’aiment tellement qu’ils ne forment qu’un. Aussi connu comme Mister Chill et Mister Fluffy. Pourtant, en plus des 18 ans qui les séparent, ils ne parlent pas la même langue et ne partagent pas la même culture. Leur amour est tellement fort qu’ils partagent leur quotidien sur les réseaux sociaux sous le pseudo de @mrchill_mrfluffy. Tout faire ensemble et tout partager toujours dans un état d’esprit positif, voilà leur définition de l’amour.“
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Eduardo & Peter
Mister Chill & Mister Fluffy
We have a dream!
Me, Peter, a.k.a. Peter Positieve / Mister Fluffy and Dado Garcia, a.k.a. Mister Chill, and ‘Proud & Happy’ #UequalsU couple have a dream, that there will be soon an ‘International #UequalsU Day’ to celebrate this fact.
We reached out to some a big organisations to make this dream come true. Of course we celebrate the fact of UequalsU everyday, together with so many other ‘discordant couples’ in the world and of course also people living with HIV, who are not in a relationship, but who are improving there health by having an undetectable viral load.
This ‘International UequalsU day’ would help enormously to promote the fact that, Undetectable is equal to Untranslatable and spread the word. International days are occasions to educate the public on issues of concern, to mobilize political will and resources to address global problems, and to celebrate and reinforce achievements of humanity on a global and national scale
We launched the idea of applying for this valuable ‘International UequalsU Day’ this week through all our social media channels, and lots of leaders of big organisations in the domain of HIV/AIDS and also U=U Organisations are delighted with the idea.
So me and Dado are promising to you all, that we will not rest till we complete the procedure of applying for and international day and that we would propose the resolution in the General Assembly and gather all the countries to get the assignment of the International UequalsU Day.
We keep you posted!
Positive greetings and we wish you all an happy UequalsU day,
Peter & Dado
Nice to share this happening on this short blog on our website.
At November 2020 we, Peter and my husband Dado Garcia were spontaneously contacted by a reporter, Margot Otten of BRUZZ,be the Belgian Media House with a television channel, website, newspaper, all with current affairs and news from the Brussels.
Margot was preparing new podcasts of ‘inspirational people’ living in Brussels and we were selected by her through our Instagram account Mr. Chill & Mr. Fluffy. An account we created for our online community to spread love and positivism. We call it “The Brotherhood of Universal Love”
Of course we were honored and very glad to work together with Margot. She came a few times to our apartment for interviews and to know each other better. Thank goodness it was still possible by then to meet and greet at our place in Brussels.
She created an amazing podcast of us living in Brussels. How we achieve to be always very positive in life, although live is not always easy and nice to us. Each of us told a part of our secret. Wink, wink. How we are able to be both a sunshine to ourselves and to other people we meet.
A big part of me, Peter was about how me and Dado met each other. How we became such an happy, supernatural love couple and how I told him that I was ‘HIV seropositive’ from the beginning and even at our first date we had on 06th of July 2018. Since then we are inseparable and we are a proud discordant and U=U couple. Discordant means that one of the two is HIV negative and the other person of the love couple is ‘seropositive’.
Me, Peter, I am celebrated my 25 years of HIV positive in the year 2020 (HIV positive since august 1995). And I have also, for almost 10 years, an undetectable viral load. This means that the number of my hiv virus particles in my blood are not measurable anymore. Medically, we call that being ‘undetectable’. A HIV positive person become undetectable as he is on an HAART (High Active Antiretroviral Therapy) and takes very faithful his/her medication. Because of this fact, I can’t transmit HIV anymore by any form of sexual contact to my life & love partner Dado.
This is such an amazing fact. Me and my partner talked about that in the first part of the podcast. We share what it means to be undetectable and how we can enjoy being an proud U=U couple. U=U means, undetectable = untransmittable. Without this U=U fact, we were probably not together which we would regret deeply. Now I have my Mr. Chill as a lovely life partner and he is my best friend too. Thanks universe and thanks to the science.
Therefore we became U=U Campaigners and want to spread the word of U=U to everybody!
Know science! No Stigma!
Please take the time to listen to our podcast and our U=U message.
Partly it is spooking in Dutch by the reporter, but 90% of the podcast is spoken in English by us. The introduction is in Dutch by the reporter, but please keep on listening further for the U=U part and the rest of our podcast story. We are so grateful that we can spread the word of U=U!
Positive and love greetings,
Dado & Peter
Alias Mr. Chill & Mr. Fluffy
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(Dutch version below)
Mr. Chill & Mr. Fluffy (Mr. Chill & Mr. Fluffy : Peter Dombret & Dado García) have been inseparable since they first met. They want to communicate love and positivity. You may have already seen the two walking in the center of Brussels in their cheerful outfits. They always wear the same #twinning. You will discover why they do that and why they have such a positive attitude towards life in the first episode of the podcast series ‘My Brussels’. In ‘My Brussels’, BRUZZ reporter Margot Otten delves into the lives of fellow citizens. From Saturday 09th of January 2021 on BRUZZ.
We will post the podcast here on this website and all the social media channels of Peter Positive & Dado Garcia
Listen click here
Mr. Chill & Mr. Fluffy (Mr. Chill & Mr. Fluffy : Peter Dombret & Dado García) zijn sinds ze elkaar leerden kennen zo goed als onafscheidelijk. Ze willen liefde en positiviteit uitdragen. Je hebt de twee misschien al zien lopen in het centrum van Brussel in hun vrolijke outfits. Ze dragen steeds hetzelfde #twinning. Waarom ze dat doen en hoe het komt dat ze zo positief in het leven staan ontdek je in de eerste aflevering van de podcastreeks ‘Mijn Brussel’In ‘Mijn Brussel’ duikt BRUZZ-reporte Margot Otten in de levens van stadsgenoten. Vanaf zaterdag 09 januari 2021 op BRUZZ
We zullen zaterdag ook de podcast delen op deze website en op alle social media kanalen van Peter Positief & Dado Garida
As a proud U=U couple we are always looking for ways to share our story and educate people on HIV/AIDS related subjects. Today, for World Aids Day 2020, we want to share a bit of story and claim back a big slogan.
(Picture: Peter Positive & Dado Garcia)
[Text by Kate Davison]
Made famous by Wham! in the 1984 music video for their smash hit ‘Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go’, with its stark, black-on-white imperative, CHOOSE LIFE. For a lot of people, 1984 actually meant death. Ronald Reagan and Margaret Thatcher were the rulers of the US & UK. As leaders of the free world, they were choosing death for millions. 1984 was also the year Bob Geldof founded Band Aid.
As a slogan, CHOOSE LIFE has variously been associated with suicide prevention campaigns, anti-nuclear campaigns and other progressive and public health causes. Certainly there was little sympathy before, or even after 1987, when the UK finally launched its AIDS: Don’t Die of Ignorance leaflet and television ad, and Princess Diana was photographed holding the hand of an AIDS patient.
During this time, both Reagan and Thatcher aggressively attacked health programs and funding. National Archives documents show how Thatcher actively and repeatedly tried to prevent the Don’t Die of Ignorance campaign, arguing that it ‘could do immense harm’ to teenagers to read information about anal sex, and that the proposed, evidence-based campaign material might even breach the Obscene Publications Act. As for Reagan, by 1989 more than 70,000 people in the US had died of AIDS.
In a pro-life chatroom, one user whined: ‘I remember getting excited in college because George Michael wore a t-shirt that said, “Choose Life” – I thought he was against abortion and was pretty disappointed when I found out he was talking about AIDS.’ Interestingly, Catherine Hamnett (the designer) has settled the matter. In a public notice, she protested: ‘The US anti-abortion lobby attempted to appropriate CHOOSE LIFE. We are taking it back and promoting its real meaning.
- Watch also the YouTube video with the “U=U – Uequalsu” message of Mister Chill, alias Dado Garcia
& Mister Fluffy, alias Peter Positive of World Aids Day 2019 on YouTube: click here